The God Spot
The partners are incompatible in their tastes, natures, views, their likes and dislikes have become widely separated and divergent so that the parties have been so that the parties and are at the time of the filing of this complaint, incompatible to such an extent that it is impossible for them to live together as husband and wife.
There is no possibility of reconciliation between the parties and there remains such incompatible temperament between them that a happy marital status can no longer exist...
So how did they go from "compatible" to "incompatible"?
Losing focus on the "God Spot".
My Niece Gabrielle and I went on her Senior trip, or as she puts it "she went with me". The New Hope Kilauea gave me a warm welcome to that Sunday morning service. It's Pilipino pastor thanked me for visiting my family in Kauai. The Church's Youth Minister brought the morning's message after the Praise and Worship service with included a lovely presentation by one it's younger members in traditional Island dance style.
He spoke of finding God's will in life. He referred to it as "the God Spot".
The "God Spot" is like a ring with a tiny dot in the center. In this life we can only aim at the dot and hope that we land somewhere within the ring.
In my Secretary job I got to witness the ending of marriages that began with a happy start. Of course the selection process has a lot to do with marriages with a happy outcome. Integrity and knowing yourself are key ingredients in that baking mix but even the best ingredients can fail if one or both parties loose sight of "The God Spot". Just keep aiming at it, you might not hit the center but at least you'll be in the ring.
"Thank (God) in everything (no matter what the circumstances may be, be thankful and give thanks), for this is the will of God for you (who are) in Christ Jesus (the Revealer and Mediator of that will). I Thess 5:18
Prayer: Father, I thank you for my life and if married or single may I always be aiming at The God Spot and Your Devine Will in my life. In Jesus Name, Amen.
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